GOLDEN ADVICE TO ALL MARRIED WOMEN
Sex is not all about making children. You must be a different woman to your husband every time by changing styles and putting on the provocative dressing. Learn to woo your husband, don’t always allow your husband to ask for Sex, there must be no timetable for sex. Be creative, don’t be predictable. Give him what he wants and be part of your husband’s plans.
When a man is sexually satisfied, he is emotionally stable (and when he is not, IKANRA will be the order of the day). Stop saying, is it food? Yes, sex is food to some extent!!! Stop saying to your husband, you like sex too much, rather explain to him nicely if for any genuine reason you cannot have sex with him at a particular moment. Plus, don’t forget that men generally like sex more than women. Understand his sexual needs and see how best you can satisfy him. My Dear Sister in Islam, it should be your joy that your husband is sexually satisfied (some are searching for what you are taking for granted. Some are in the psychiatric because sex is a minus in their life). Teach him how you want him to do it if he is not doing it in a way that makes you feel sexually satisfied. Be an active player in your sexual life as married couples, not a passive one. Talk about your sex life often and suggest ways you think can bring improvement in this regard. Please don’t deprive him of sex as a way of punishment. A Muslimah should not do that!
Beyond sex, as a wife, try to invest in yourself spiritually so you can adequately support him. Build yourself as his partner in spirituality. Praying for him always and also become his prayer partner praying with him as often. Tell him: Sweetheart, can we wake up for Tahajjud tonight? Can we take a voluntary fast tomorrow? . Don’t be idle when it comes to praying for your family. Prayer makes a lot of difference. If your husband succeeds, you have succeeded, if your husband is happy, you will also be happy. Be a praying woman rather than nagging constantly.
You are meant to support each other spiritually, financially, physically, and morally through thick and thin. You are a builder…The wise woman builds her home. Women need the wisdom to build their homes. Do not be too outspoken, know when to talk, when to listen, and when to be quiet. Love your husband with all your heart, never tell him, if not because of my children, remember you’ve known him before the arrival of those children. Pamper your husband, put his head on your chest, and pray for him. Give him an unannounced kiss from the back… Mmmmmmwahhhhhh. He is your husband for Allaah’s sake. Be romantic oooo, it is good for the heart. Some people are not happy that you’re happy in that marriage, proof them wrong that you love him and he is your crown, always feel good when you hold him. Don’t look 50 while you’re still under 30, it drives most men crazy. Always keep fit regardless of your age or body. Let him realize you are still YOUNG as he married you.
Do not take a woman who does all these for granted! Pamper her, pray for her, cherish her, love her, support her financially, make her feel like your woman! Allah blesses you and your marriages.